And things always taste better when they are forbidden. It’s like being a teenager and having to jump out of your girlfriend’s bedroom window again. Yet that just makes it hotter – who doesn’t like an element of danger? Straight men lie to each other about how common this is, so there is a danger of being ‘caught’ with your trousers down with another man. It’s healthy for everyone to explore sexually, it will help you realise what you like or don’t like, and it doesn’t mean anything you don’t want it to mean. It’s about as logical as saying using handcuffs in the bedroom once means you’re a dominatrix now and that’s the only way you can possibly have sex. Men are encouraged to never explore or question their sexuality.Įven the slightest hint you might be interested in men and boom, you’re gay for life and no woman will ever look at you again. To be clear, there are gay men who don’t enjoy giving or receiving blowjobs, just as there are women who feel the same. That’s not to say some women aren’t amazing at it, but men just have more experience with a penis. Why? Because men have penises, they know how it feels and how to make it feel good. It’s posited that men tend to give better blowjobs.